Romeo and Juliet: Love

Studied for Junior Cycle English exam years 2028, 2029, 2030.

Romeo and Juliet love is not one feeling with one name. The play holds several kinds of it, and a strong answer keeps them apart. Romeo’s misery over Rosaline is a performance. The Nurse’s affection is warm and practical. Capulet’s love for his daughter comes with conditions. Mercutio thinks the whole business is a joke. Sort them out and you have an argument. Treat love as one thing and you only have a summary.

Where the different kinds of love appear

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Romeo and Rosaline, Act 1, Scene 1. Romeo is in love with being in love. Rosaline never appears and he never speaks to her. He shuts himself in a dark room, sighs, and talks in tidy opposites. Shakespeare shows you the pose first, so you can measure the real thing against it later.

Romeo and Juliet, Act 1, Scene 5 and Act 2, Scene 2. The language changes the moment he sees her. The clever contradictions drop away and the images turn to light. Their first conversation is a shared sonnet about pilgrims and saints. At the window it is Juliet who asks the practical questions. She wants a plan, not compliments.

The Nurse and Juliet, Act 1, Scene 3 to Act 3, Scene 5. The Nurse raised Juliet and the affection is real. She carries the messages and sets up the wedding in Act 2, Scene 5. Then Capulet loses his temper and her advice changes. She loves Juliet, but not enough to be ruined for her.

Capulet and Juliet, Act 1, Scene 2 and Act 3, Scene 5. Capulet starts as a careful father. He tells Paris to win her heart and says his own will is only part of it. Two acts later she refuses Paris and he threatens to drag her to the church. The affection was real. So were the conditions.

Mercutio on love, Act 1, Scene 4 and Act 2, Scene 1. Mercutio treats love as appetite and as material for jokes. The Queen Mab speech turns dreams and desire into fairy nonsense. He is killed in Act 3, Scene 1 without ever meeting Juliet. His view of love is the first one the play destroys.

Romeo and Juliet love in the quotes

“Why, then, O brawling love! O loving hate!”
Romeo, complaining about Rosaline to Benvolio, in Act 1, Scene 1.

Neat opposites, arranged like homework. Use this as your baseline, then set his language at the feast beside it.

“Go, girl, seek happy nights to happy days.”
Nurse, pressing Juliet about marriage to Paris, in Act 1, Scene 3.

The Nurse’s idea of love is physical and cheerful. Use her as a third position, neither romance nor a property deal.

“O, she doth teach the torches to burn bright!”
Romeo, seeing Juliet for the first time at the feast, in Act 1, Scene 5.

No paired opposites now, just light. The change in how he speaks is your evidence that this is not Rosaline again.

“My only love sprung from my only hate!”
Juliet, learning Romeo’s name after the feast, in Act 1, Scene 5.

Juliet names the trap before anybody has been hurt. Use it to tie love to the feud instead of treating them as separate topics.

“If love be blind, love cannot hit the mark.”
Mercutio, calling for the hidden Romeo outside the orchard, in Act 2, Scene 1.

Mercutio reduces love to a joke about the body. He is the voice that stops the romance going unquestioned.

“O swear not by the moon, th’inconstant moon”
Juliet, stopping Romeo’s vow at her window, in Act 2, Scene 2.

She interrupts a romantic promise to ask for something steadier. Use it against any claim that Juliet is simply swept along.

“My bounty is as boundless as the sea”
Juliet, speaking to Romeo below her window, in Act 2, Scene 2.

Her love works by giving and grows as she gives it. Romeo’s works by worship. That difference is worth a paragraph.

“Or I will drag thee on a hurdle thither.”
Capulet, threatening Juliet for refusing Paris, in Act 3, Scene 5.

A hurdle was the wooden frame criminals were dragged to execution on. Set it beside his gentleness in Act 1, Scene 2 and the change does your work for you.

“I think it best you married with the County.”
Nurse, advising Juliet after Capulet’s threat, in Act 3, Scene 5.

She calmly recommends a second marriage while the first husband is alive. Use it as the moment Juliet loses her last ally in the house.

The angle Shakespeare takes

The play does not simply take the lovers’ side. Romeo and Juliet gives them the best lines in it, then kills them both inside four days. The feeling is genuine. It is also hasty, secret, and resting on a plan nobody checks.

The warning comes from the man who marries them.

“These violent delights have violent ends”
Friar Lawrence, waiting with Romeo before the wedding, in Act 2, Scene 6.

He says it, then performs the ceremony anyway. Use that gap to argue that the play admires this love and distrusts its speed at the same time.

“That heaven finds means to kill your joys with love!”
Prince, speaking to both fathers over the bodies, in Act 5, Scene 3.

The Prince makes love the punishment, not the cure for the feud. The families are reconciled only once their children are dead.

How to use this in a Section C answer

A studied play is examined in Section C, Responding Imaginatively, worth 70 of the 180 marks. Romeo and Juliet love suits that section because you can move across all five acts without retelling the story.

Argue one thing. The play sets several kinds of love against each other, and only one of them is tested to destruction. Anchor that to four moments. Romeo on Rosaline in Act 1, Scene 1. The feast in Act 1, Scene 5. The window in Act 2, Scene 2. The row in Act 3, Scene 5, where her father and the Nurse both fail her.

Name the kind of love every time you name a person. Say what they want and what it costs them. At Ordinary Level, two of those moments handled properly will carry an answer. The same evidence works for CBA2, your Collection of Student Texts.

One common mistake, and the fix

The usual mistake is spending the whole answer on the balcony scene. Act 2, Scene 2 is the part everyone knows, so it fills a page quickly. It also covers about ten minutes of a five act play, and nothing in it has been tested.

The fix is to keep it, then move. Follow the same love into Act 3, Scene 5, where Juliet is threatened and told to forget her husband. Then take one moment from Act 5. Romeo and Juliet love is easiest to prove by contrast, not by describing one famous scene at length.

Quick recall

1. How is Romeo’s love for Rosaline different?

It is a performance. She never appears and he never speaks to her. It ends the second he sees Juliet.

2. Who first links love to the family feud?

Juliet, in Act 1, Scene 5. She learns Romeo’s name and says her only love came from her only hate.

3. What does Juliet refuse to accept as a vow?

A promise sworn on the moon. It changes shape every month, so she asks Romeo for something more constant.

4. How does the Nurse let Juliet down?

In Act 3, Scene 5 she tells Juliet to marry Paris and forget Romeo. That practical advice ends Juliet’s trust in her.

5. What happens to Capulet’s love when Juliet refuses Paris?

It turns into a threat. In Act 1, Scene 2 he wanted her consent. In Act 3, Scene 5 he promises to drag her to the church.

6. What is Mercutio’s view of love?

A joke about appetite. He mocks Romeo for sighing over a girl and never takes it seriously.

7. What does Friar Lawrence warn about the marriage?

That violent delights have violent ends. A love this sudden burns itself out. He marries them minutes after saying so.

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